2nd Helping: Not Every Natural is Coarse of Course

This was the first installment of my So Fine series written for CurlyNikki that talked all about having fine hair.  I’m a firm believe that in addition to knowing your curl pattern, you must know your strand thickness if you are to properly care for your curls.  Here’s step one in figuring out where YOUR hair lies on the spectrum.  If you’re interested in reading the full series where I discuss styling, products, and regimen for fine hair you can find all other posts here.


SO FINE: Not Every Natural is Coarse, Of Course!  – January 2011

For the longest time, I thought that if you had thick hair, your hair was coarse and if you had thin hair then your hair was fine.  Until about a year ago, I lived my entire life under the assumption that because my hair was extremely thick that it was coarse.  However, after going natural I discovered that beneath my straightened hair, there were follicles waiting to release zillions of little slinkies from my scalp.  One day my friend was inspecting my teeny weeny coils when she said “your coils are so dense, but your hairs themselves are so so fine.”

Up close and personal shot of my texture

“Fine hair??  On this head??  Not a chance”, I said laughing it off.

“No really,” she insisted.  And with that, she plucked a hair from her scalp held it up to one of my own.

To my surprise her hair was double the thickness mine! After a few more comparisons with other heads, I discovered that without a doubt, I fall into category of having fine hair.

I shared with you my discovery of fine hair because many of us assume that because we have kinky coils or a thick head of hair that our hair is COARSE, when in reality you could be like me and have a thick head of fine hair.

Let’s break it down to see where you fall.

First, there are really two spectrums of hair that we’re talking about here:

  • the thickness of a strand of hair (fine-medium-coarse)
  • the density of follicles on the head (thin-medium-thick)

If you’re like me, you could go around plucking hairs from other people’s heads and comparing them to your own, but there actually is an, erm, place below the waist where everyone grows coarse hair.  That’s right- pubic hair is coarse hair!  (You knew getting to know your hair was intimate, but betcha didn’t know HOW intimate).  If your hair is as thick as this hair from your nether regions, it’s coarse and if its thinner, but only slightly so, it’s medium, and if its noticeably more faint, then you have fine hair.

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So Fine- Regimen Awareness + Win a Custom Consultation and Products from Komaza Care

So you want to know the secret to having good hair? The one key thing that will cause your hair to thrive and grow strong? It will not only save you money, but also space in your cabinets. Ready for it?


Making sure that you have a consistent maintenance routine and product regimen is, in my opinion, the most important thing you can do for your hair. Ok, and drinking plenty of water too, but I digress. It’s easy to fall into the trap to product junkyism or testing out new styles each week, but this is all sorts of bad news for naturals — especially you SO FINE naturals whose delicate tresses need as regular, and gentle care as possible.

I know, because I’ve been there. I’ve switched around products too often and the result was a tangled, coil-less mess. Just yesterday, I was bumming out because my neglected nighttime routine has left me with nearly loc’ing ends that I find just oh-so upsetting.



Routine is important, I know this, but even I sometimes fall off the wagon.

So lets all hop back on together by establishing new or maintaining existing routines! I called up natural hair guru, Rene Maddox, the Founder and Co-owner of Komaza Care because she knows. her. stuff!

Rene and Cass


Here are some interesting facts that came from the conversation that hopefully will impress upon you the importance of maintaining a routine:

  • Stick with it: It takes 6-8 weeks for your hair to really get used to a product.  Before this time, it will be difficult for you to actually see the maximum benefit a product can have on your hair.  So unless a product is REALLY messing with your hair (and you’ll know) keep using it and then after 6-8 weeks make a decision about whether or not to repurchase it.
  • Nail down your technique: This is a different way of saying practice makes perfect.  If you don’t like how your wash’n’go came out the first time, there’s a good chance that you just need to work a little bit more on how you are executing the style.  Are you using too much product?  Too little?  Are you smoothing and working the product in enough?  Over time, you will develop a practiced and perfected technique that works for YOU- every time- like clockwork.
  • Pay attention: Read the ingredients.  If your hair doesn’t like heavy butters and oils, make sure you’re not trying to use a product that has a lot of heavy butters and oils.  Similarly, if your hair loves aloe vera, make sure to find products that use a lot of this ingredient!
  • Ask and you shall receive: If you have questions about how to use a product, do not be afraid to call a product company and ask!  If you’ve never done this before, you’d be surprised at how accessible product companies often are!  They can answer all your questions and make sure that you’re using the product the right way.

A solid product regimen should be centered around two things: a moisturizer and a moisture sealer.  Then to that core, you should add a shampoo, conditioner, deep conditioner, and a styler.  I was going to orchestrate a giveaway of a certain group of products that I hold near and dear to my heart, but that goes against everything I said above and believe in: what works for me, may not work for you.

So I’m really excited to giveaway a CUSTOM PRODUCT CONSULTATION AND COMPLETE KOMAZA CARE PRODUCT REGIMEN!  One winner is going to be taken under the wing of Miss Rene of Komaza Care to determine what your specific product needs are and then work with her to develop a custom product regimen that you will use consistently [for 6-8 weeks].  While it’s difficult to say which specific products from Komaza Care the winner will receive, we’re talking about a shampoo, conditioner, moisturizer, styler, and more (depending on your needs!) Holy buckets this is a good one and I’m really excited to be able to sit on the sidelines for this one!


Here’s how you enter:

Step 1: Like Natural Selection’s Facebook Page
Step 2: Make sure you’re a subscriber to this blog
Step 3: Ok. I was torn whether or not to do this, but I loved reading your entries OH SO VERY MUCH that I want to do another haiku contest! Woohoo! This time around, I want you to incorporate the word REGIMEN.

A quick haiku how-to: A haiku is a 3 line poem that has 5 syllables in the first line, 7 in the second, and 5 in the third. My example entry into the contest:

Woe is me!  My curls

Suffering.   Must return to

Nighttime regimen.


See!  Easy peasy with such an awesome thing to win!  Can’t wait to read your entries!

So Fine: Floridian Field Research on Oils and Butter

There’s a lot of buzz in the blogosphere about the necessity of “sealing” hair by using silicones or oils which are natural water repellents. Sealers (aka “anti-humectants”) are like a ziploc bag for your hair: the moisture in your cuticles can’t get out and excess moisture in the air can’t get in.

This is your hair.

This is your hair with a sealer.

I know for a fact that many people out there use oils and butters religiously because to seal in moisture as well as combat over-hydration caused by high dew points and humid temperatures. The truth is that I never use a sealant. Ever. I find that many oils and butters are way too heavy for my fine, low porosity hair. Shea butter sits and leave hair boogers. Oils leave me greasy stranded and crunchy. I tried for a while to force the sealers, but after a couple of ruined pillows I decided to let them be.

Me: 0 Shea Butter: 1

Then it dawned on me, that perhaps I don’t need the anti-humectants not because they don’t work for my hair, but because they don’t work for my climate. For better or worse, San Francisco is temperate; there is no heat here, just a foggy, costal mediterranean climate that’s never too warm or cold all year round. It might sound nice (and it is), but when July is one of the coldest, grayest months of the year, it can really grind your gears.


When considering hair products and regimen, it is crucial to consider the climate in which you live to determine products with the best possible fit for your unique hair needs.  According to an article by the Curl Chemist on NaturallyCurly:

Curly hair seems to really thrive in moderate climactic conditions, and dew point ranges of approximately 35°F to 50°F seem to be optimal….When the dew point for your area is at 60°F or above, it might be a good idea to apply some product with anti-humectant properties.

Sounds about right. The average dew point in SF is about 48, which is right in the range of not needing an anti humectant. This weekend I’ll be traveling across the country to Florida to check out the Curly Nikki meet up and covering the Premiere Orlando show for NaturallyCurly.com! I’m very excited for the trip in general, but also to give anti humectants another chance and do some real-time So Fine field research in while I’m on the ground where it currently reads as having dew points in the upper 70’s! Stay tuned for the results to see if its me or the weather!

So Fine: Dishing on Detangling

Fact: textured hair is prone to tangling.

Fact: detangling can be damaging.

Fact: it doesn’t have to be.

Tangles come in all different forms from fairy knots to matting roots to wishbone snarls at the end of your strands to shed hairs caught mid strand to a pony tail elastic that has somehow ensnared itself so impossibly in your coils. Each of these tangles are unique in their own way and requires a different way of dealing with them. But before we talk about different detangling methods for different scenarios, let’s start with basic assumptions about prepping fine hair for detangling.

Detangling 101

  • Start with a wet head. Hair doesn’t have to be soaking wet, but it should at least be damp.
  • Scratch that, before your head is wet, make sure its deep conditioned. Dry hair is more prone to break.  A recent deep conditioning is a great way to ensure that your hair is in tip-top condition.
  • Add some slip. I like to use creamy conditioners to help my detangling tool glide down my strands.  Other options are oils and butters depending on your preference.  Whatever you choose, be sure to have some sort of lubrication on your hair to help out the process.
  • Eyes on the prize. If you are busy, in a rush or distracted, drop the comb and step away.  Improper detangling can break your hair and cause irreversible damage.  To prevent both of these tangle travesties, make sure you’ve got time, energy, and focus to dedicate to the process.
  • Bottom up not top down.  Never detangle from the root to the tip.  Make sure you go in the other direction from the tips of your hair towards your scalp.  Going from root to tip will just cause more tangles at the bottom of your hair.
  • Work in small sections.  This will help you manage the process and keep your task organized.
  • Shed hairs be gone. The human head sheds on average 50-100 hairs each day.  If you have curly coils, these little buggers are probably getting stuck in your coils rather than slipping out on their own.  Detangling will help you get these hairs out and prevent tangles from reforming.
  • Timing is everything. Chances are you don’t need to detangle once a day.  Take sometime to figure out how often you really need to be detangling in your regular regimen.  Weekly, bi-weekly, monthly are all good choices!

Ok, now that we’re done with the foundation of detangling, lets talk about the various detangling methods.  I am a firm believer that  each of these methods have their own time and place.  The great thing about being the boss of your very own self is that you can mix and match these techniques as you see fit within your own routines and hair care regimens.

Finger Detangling

Perhaps the most gentle of all detangling methods.  Your fingers are like nature’s combs and the great part about using your own hands is that they are part of your own nervous system, meaning that unlike plastic, they can really feel out the knot and use their dexterity to work through them.   Finger detangling is great for focusing on major knots and working to break them up one strand at a time.  Never ever ever do the thing where you stick two fingers into a section of hair and pry them open to pop open a knot at the tip of your hair.  That popping sound is your hair breaking.  Sad.

Finger detangling is also a great option to use before combing or brushing to get rid of any big snarls before really getting into the nitty gritty of the process.


The most polarizing detangling method in curly hair-dom.  While some curlies’ hair starts to break at the mention of the words ‘Tangle Teezer’, others should be posed on the cover of a Harlequin romance novel with their modified Denman D3’a.  The thing about brushing is that if it works for you, it WORKS.  With all of those rows of teeth, after a thorough brushing there will be no tangles to be found on your head.  The key with brushing is that you must, must BE GENTLE.  Be delicate, be tender, be soft.  You are not MarciaMarciaMarcia Brady and should not aimlessly brush your hair as if you were.  If you hear snapping: stop.  If you see short strands covering your sink: quit.  If you notice split ends: call it a day.



Probably the safest bet in the detangling department.  It’s thorough, it’s efficient, and unless you’re not following the basics, it’s gentle.  Select a model with widely spaced teeth and a good grip for holding.  A basic wide tooth comb will run you a couple bucks at a beauty supply store, but you can upgrade to jazzier versions such as a seamless comb, shower comb (hangs in the shower), or the Ouidad Double Detangler (with it’s 2 rows of teeth) to name a few.

Ok, fine I get it. But what do YOU do, Cass??

Ouidad Double Detangler all the way baby.  That thing is a workhorse (and probably as heavy as one too).  The double spans of teeth slice and dice my detangling time in half, while the wide width of the spaces between the teeth ensure that I’m not doing damaging my fine strands while I pull the comb through my hair.  I also like that it’s pretty sizable so that I can work through large-ish sections of hair.  I’ve noticed no breakage or splits with this comb and its more efficient than using just a single wide tooth comb.  I detangle religiously once a week, and if I push this any longer, I will really be paying for it and cutting out locs that form at the end of my coils.  Again, sad.

I am in the process of considering –  just considering –  using the Tangle Teezer once a month on my hair.  I tried it for the first time just yesterday and I loved the smoothness I got, but I’ve read enough reviews about TT imposed breakage to know that frequent use of this tool could wreak havoc on my fine strands.  I am considering using it because it really did a great job of pulling out my shed hairs and I liked the thoroughness of the tool.


The Moral of the Story

Detangling is a way of life for naturals and for fine haired naturals is can be a dangerous endeavor.  Just make sure to listen to your hair and find a method that works for your your curl pattern and your porosity.  Remember that fine hair is more fragile than most so treat it as such.  Do not rip, pull, or tug.  Break out the scissors if and only if you can’t get a tangle out with any of the above methods (some tangles just won’t budge).  Get your combs and brushes through gently and with ease.  If your tangles are unrelenting, think about using a different method or getting a trim.

SO FINE: Footloose and Protein Free!

As promised in the last segment of So Fine, I wanted to present to you a round up of protein free conditioners for those of you who have protein sensitivities due to higher porosity strands.  When you’re shopping for a protein-free conditioner, you must read the label closely because often times proteins might sneak in there where you least expect them.  Here’s a little guide to help you out when you’re looking for your protein-free conditioner.

Avoid the words:

  • Amino acids (the building blocks of protein)
  • Keratin
  • Collagen

All of these are are fancier words for saying “protein”, which is obviously a word you should avoid too.

What to look for:

  • WATER!  Always water.  When in doubt: water.  Never not water.  Did I mention….water?
  • Aloe vera.  (second to water because nothing can beat the moisture of water.  Aloe does a darn good job though!)
  • Behentrimonium Methosulfate or behentrimonium chloride (to soften the hair)
  • Oils (jojoba and shea to seal in moisture)

Here’s some of my favorite protein-free conditioners that pack a good dose of moisture without the risk of any of the crunchy-crispness that you might find in a protein-filled conditioner.   Drumroll please…



Water infused with herbs and spices, shea/cocoa butters, and aloe are the starlettes of this rich conditioner.  Jess herself recommends using heat for 20 minutes with the product for maximum deep conditioning benefits.  But let me let you in on a little secret: when more crunched for time, I smooth on the conditioner and leave on for a few minutes in the shower for a quick moisture fix!  Works like a charm!



From the shelf of your local drugstore (or superstore) to your shower, this is one of my favorite and most easily accessible conditioners!  Fantastic for detangling and super moisturizing in a pinch.  Not to mention it is about $5 for a big bottle.  Super slip and crazy cheap: can’t beat it!



I’m so pissed no one told me about this product sooner— this stuff is the JAM!  I goes on like a satin sheet over your curls, instantly infusing moisture.  Rinse it out or leave it in!  It’s definitely light enough that it will not weigh fine strands down as a leave in.  Great, refreshing scent too.


Want a little bit of protein?  Not to much, but just a little?  Try these on for size!

Aubrey Organics Honey Suckle Rose Conditioner

This is one of the richest conditioners I’ve ever used.  Great for moisturizing and add a touch of oil for slip if you’d like!  It’s also great that you can get this one for a reasonable price from a heath and natural foods store.


Jane Carter Solutions Nutrient Replenishing  Conditioner

At first, I was hooked on this stuff because of the scent.  I would have willingly dipped myself into a vat of this stuff just to carry the scent around with me all day. Then I tried it as an actual conditioner (not just a perfume fantasy) and LOVED it.  Rinse it out or leave it in– either way you can’t go wrong!


There you have it!  A round up of some of my favorite protein-free conditioners!  Heavy on the moisture, yet won’t weigh your hair down, the perfect combo for you and your SO FINE selves!

SO FINE: The Protein Posse

A few So Fine’s ago, I used my Sponge Theory to explain how protein interacted with hair cuticles to produce both awesome and horrible results depending on your fine hair porosity.  Conditioners, as you are all well aware, are key to any hair regimen, and also a great place to get your protein fix (if that’s what you need).  Here’s a round up of some of my favorite protein-based conditioners for fine hair.


Aubrey Organics GPB Conditioner

Aubrey Organics’ Glycogen Protein Balancing Conditioner is great for maintaining a good protein level in the hair (hence the name).  The smell is a bit strong and is definitely not anything in the realm of some of the flowery, desserty, herbal scents you might be used to.  I love this stuff because you can get it on the ground (at Whole Foods or a local health store), it’s reasonably priced, and using it as a quick conditioner AND a deep conditioner really makes my curls pop!  The main protein in this one is Hydrolyzed Soy Protein.

Curl Junkie Repair Me!  Reconstructive Hair Treatment

Let’s just get this out there that this is a *strong* protein conditioner, but it does a bang up job of providing both a good dose of protein and conditioning.  Some keratin-based protein treatments do not include enough conditioners and will leave your hair hard in the process of conditioning, but we have the opposite here as this one combines stronger proteins with top notch conditioners.  The keratin is also good for repairing any damage or brittle ends.  I find that this one is strong enough to work great as a quick conditioner as well as a deep conditioner.




Sometimes you’re low on goods and are using your back up conditioner, but need to add a touch of protein because thats what your hair likes.  My suggestion is to add a dollop of  yogurt to the mix!  Its not a terribly potent source of protein (about 3%), but it is certainly a good option for enriching a regular old standby conditioner.  If you want to concoct a something more rich, may I suggest the Cherry Lola Treatment, which is 1/2 cup yogurt, 1/8 cup Amino Acids, 1/8 cup baking soda.  Leave the mixture on about 5-10 minutes, gently rinse and voila!



Oyin Handmade Honey Hemp Conditioner

Slip!  Moisture!  Protein!  Oh my!  This conditioner has it all.  Featuring a moderate dose hydrolyzed silk protein, this is a great conditioner for using as your regular rinse out conditioner because its does not have a very intense protein count.



Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle

This one is a staple people, a true staple and can work for almost everyone.  I love using this one as a detangler and as a base for making other conditioner concoctions (such as adding oils or yogurt to it).  I think it’s because its $4 and I can get it at a local grocery store so I’m more willing to mess around with this one.  This is another conditioner with a smaller amount of protein.  Did I mention that its $4?  Oh I did?  Well let me say it one more time: this conditioner costs $4.


Komaza Care Protein Hair Strengthener

Yes, I know this isn’t a conditioner, but I needed to give a shout out to this product in this round up.  This. Is. Pure. Protein.  There are no conditioners in it and as such it has a very specific use: to strengthen hair.  You apply this treatment, let it dry, rinse it out, then deep condition your hair.  It’s a lengthy process, but is well worth it to get a dose of protein.  I especially like this one because there’s no fluff to it, no additives.  Its all natural and all protein.


Ok, lovelies, that is all for this round up!  What are some of your favorite protein conditioners?  Leave em in the comments!  I know that some of you are NOT fans of proteins so don’t you fret, you will get your dedicated post of protein-free conditioners too.  Stay FINE!!!

SO FINE: Let’s talk “protection”

The online natural hair community is riddled with protective styling challenges, videos, forums, and blogs.  There are many people that speak of protective styling as the key to healthy hair and for them protective styling has helped them retain length.   HOWEVER, for some of us, particularly those of us with fine hair, protective styling can actually do the exact opposite.

Coily, kinky, curly hair is by definition more fragile because the nooks and crannies of the curl are weak points.  You can take a piece of string and twist it into all sorts of shapes with out doing any damage to it.

But if you were to take a filament with more curves in it, you could really do some harm if you play with it too much.

Let’s use a slinky as an example.  We’ve all played with these metal coils of joy!

So you’re there with your slinky and having so much fun watching the thing walk down the stairs, bouncing back and forth between your two hands, and making cool shapes.  Then you get a little bored and you decide to get innovative with the damn thing.  So you decide to see how far it can stretch out before slinking back up.  You grab a friend and each hold on to an end to see how far you can stretch it.

Then you let go and expect it to slink back up and it doesn’t because all of the bends have now been over stretched and your slinky is dunzo.  No matter how hard you try to reform the coils this is what you wind up with.

Womp Womp.

This point of no return can also happen for coily hair in the form of breakage and thinning ends.  When you put so much stress on your fragile strands keep up a regimen of protective styling, you can be doing more harm than good.  I have found personally that the best thing that I can do for my hair to retain length and encourage growth is to leave it alone.  That is why I prefer wash’n’gos.  I find that although my hair is out and exposed to the elements, leaving my hair in a low manipulation style such as this one is truly the best way to protect my coils because my hair is at its strongest when it is not stretched and pulled.  Of course sometimes I need to mix things up and so maybe once every two months I’ll throw in some twists or braids for fun.  But in general, my focus is to manipulate my hair as little as possible.  Check out my [Af]Rotation for my quick and easy wash’n’go tutorial that I’ve used to stretch my wash’n’go to 9 days!

Rockin the Wash'n'Go



That said, I know that there are a lot of people out there who experience significant tangling when they wear their hair loose and so they prefer to wear styles to prevent this issue.  If you have fine hair, instead of twisting or braiding your hair daily, try to extend the life of your style by doing smaller twists or braids, ones that can be left in for at least 1 week.  2 weeks would be ideal, and if you can get 4+ weeks out of one style, you’re really golden.  Braids and kinky twists are good options for protective styles with a longer shelf life.

Kinky Twists



So the next time you’re thinking of incorporating frequent protective styling into your regimen, remember that the best protective style might just be doing nothing at all!

SO FINE: Protein. How a good thing can be too much.

For some of us with fine hair, protein-packed deep conditioners can work MIRACLES.  If you’re like me, protein conditioners clump our coils together, strengthen our strands, and give weight to our otherwise lightweight strands.  However, for others, protein  can wreak havoc their heads by making their strands brittle, stiff, and rough.    If you have experienced either end of this spectrum you’re probably wondering one question: WHAT’S UP WITH PROTEIN?  And why does it have such an awesome/horrific effect on my hair?

Protein’s affect on your hair has everything to do with the porosity of your hair.  To explain this more in full, we’re going to bring back our old friend Mr. Sponge.  In today’s little lesson, we’re going to have the part of protein played by Elmer.  Yes, as in the glue.

This sponge represents hair with low porosity.

This sponge represents hair with high porosity.

In each of these sponges, the holes represent the hair’s cuticle.  (Think of a cuticle like shingles on a roof).

When protein is applied to the lo-po sponge, the holes in the surface of the sponge pull in small amounts of protein relative to the size of the entire sponge.

When you apply protein to this hi-po sponge, the protein seeps into the larger holes on the surface of the sponge.  Because the holes are larger, the sponge has more surface to absorb the protein.  In fact it absorbs TOO much, leaving it stuffed with protein like a Thanksgiving turkey.

As you can see there is a lot more protein intake in the hi-po sponge than the lo-po sponge.
Now applying this logic to actual hair, low porosity fine hair does well with protein because there are not as many cuticle openings.  High porosity hair gets crispy because it takes too much protein in because it has more cuticle openings.

Of course there are exceptions because like glue, proteins come in many different forms and sizes.  Some proteins, such as hydrolysed proteins, can actually benefit high porosity hair by working to fill in the cuticle layer.  So if you have high-po hair, be sure to take a look at the product label and see if this type of protein is on there before judging it too soon.

Lo-po naturals should try using a heat cap, hooded dryer, or steamer with their deep treatments so that you can raise the cuticle layer get maximum protein benefits.

By using the right technique with and type of protein, you can be sure to find the right type of strengthening conditioner for your So Fine strands!  In the next installment of the series, I’ll be going over deep conditioner how to’s and product recommendations.

SO FINE: We’ve got a winner! Three actually…

Last night I sat at the kitchen table to read through the, ahem, sixty-four pages of haikus that you all entered into this giveaway and quickly became overwhelmed by the awesome effort that you all put into your poetry.  How in the WORLD could I choose just one???  I read a few to my roommate Ben, hoping he might help me out, but when he said, in all seriousness, “I think you should eliminate anyone that used the word FINE” I knew I was on my own on this one.

It was extremely difficult to pick a winner.  So much so that I wrote all of our lovely sponsors back and asked if we could hook up 2nd and 3rd place prizes too.  They willingly obliged and so I was tasked with the duty of narrowing 240 haikus down to three (not just 1)  ::phew::

To judge these haikus, I first made sure that the participants followed the rule of using the words SO FINE (and lots and lots didn’t, okurrrr).  Then I read each and every haiku looking at its flow/style/ creativity/humor/structure/rhyme/lack-of-rhyme.  I will say that there was a group that wrote theirs as 7-5-7 haikus because of a mistake I made in the original post and so those were not discounted.  However poems that were 6-7-4  (or some other non-haiku variation) WERE disqualified.

Let’s start with the two silver medalists that I chose [in no particular order].


Today my hair wants freedom.
So, fine, an afro.
Let the March winds blow it out!


Hair so fine, so free
I am loving what I see
Africa in me

-By Poppy

Congrats ladies, you have each one sample size of each of the three featured products: Qhemet Biologics Burdock Root Butter Cream, Karen’s Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia, and Bee Mine Deja’s hair milk!!  Yippie hooray!

And in first place…drumroll por favor…. we have Jihan!!  Congratulations, you’ve got  full bottles of three of my fa-vo-rite moisturizers from Qhemet Biologics, Karen’s Body Beautiful, and Bee Mine coming your way!    I thought your haiku was creative and well written in terms of structure.  I liked the flow, and how you referenced the delicate nature of fine hair.  Everyone, read this one outloud and you’ll see what I mean. Good work and you’ll have to let us know how you like the goodies!

Hair. finely spun. silk.
fragile. handle with care please.
so fine. love mine. Hair.


I would be remiss to wrap up this contest without giving a shout out to the honorable mentions of the contest.  I’m sorry, I don’t have goodies for all of you, but I do want to spotlight your awesome haiku skills!

First of all, let me say WOW to Gail, Lori, and iusedtolovehim.  These ladies entered about 12  haikus each and have proven themselves as true haiku masters.  In it for the art as much as the sport they are!

Selections from Gaill:

TWA saves ca$h
Don’t sleep on my power naps
So Fine, penny wise.

Your straight hair does this,
and My “SO FINE” Kinks do that –
while Dave Chapelle, drums.

My coils are SO FINE,
How fine are they, did you say?
Paid the judge and clerk.


Some selections from Lori:

Dusky silhouette
Jives so fine to the rhythm


Qhemet and Karen
Ya’ll so fine, puh-leeze Bee Mine!
Wicked grin…poo-YA


i like ‘em kinky
so fine n’ hung doooown to there!
my men? Nah. My Hair…

From iusedtolovehim

My locs were so fine
but I think i’ve changed my mind
afro here I come


So fine were my locs
cascading long down my back
eight year long journey

[Editors note: send us a before and after pic!!]


And now single haikus and other poetry that people shared in the comments worth honorable mentions:

Curly, frizzy, that’s my hair
Pretty bold take a pic
So fine, but fly, it’s G6




Just combed out all my locs,
Hair SO FINE, it rocks!
Loving the natural life

Ashall Smith



Sapphire Smile
Mystic Divine
My Hair, So Fine

Blue Lilly’s Rise
Peach Cobbler Drizzling
My Hair, So Fine

Golden Gate Bridge
Today, I LIVE
No Longer in Hair Bondage

-Casarae L. Gibson



Big Curly Afro
Shines knowing it is So Fine
Friends Now With The Rain




this hair is all mine
every curly loop and vine
so strong yet so fine




My hair is fine
Just like me
My hair is chunky
Just like me
My hair is soft
Just like me
My hair is kinky
Just like me
My hair is sassy
Just like me
My her is fabulous
Just like me
But, my hair doesn’t make me
I make me




like cotton in spring
Thick but still so fine, all mine
sublime and strong fro

Mrs. Sugarpuff



Dryness issues that won’t end?
Stop the madness now
Moisture is a curl’s best friend!

So fine to behold
Kinky curls reach to the skies
Drinking nature’s gold




Cottony tendrils
Dense as the Amazon lush
So fine, fragile muse




So Fine So Divine
My hair smiles and laughs out loud
Join me and be free




“Dear Diary”

Hurt myself today:
Whipped my hair…. crashed into lamp.
Neck SO FINE, it snapped.



College curls are broke
So fine but a little dry
No moisture just hope




who are you to touch my hair?
I’m not your Barbie!



Thanks to ALL of you so much for participating.  Be sure to stay tuned for the next installment of SO FINE coming out on Wednesday!  Happy weekend, y’all!

SO FINE: These are a few of my fa-vor-ite moisturizers (GIVEAWAY!)

One of the main challenges with finding the perfect moisturizer when you have fine hair is finding one that both gives you the moisture you need, but doesn’t weigh your hair down and make it product-y.  It can be tough to be So Fine in a world filled with so many buttery, creamy concoctions that are just too heavy for our delicate strands.  I have found that the key is to find products that both pack a lot of slam in the moisture department but are light enough to not leave your head feeling like Slimer did the Dougie on top of it.  (Yikes!)

I find that my preferred moisturizers that fall into this category have one thing in common: good ol’ H2O sits at top of their ingredient lists.  Another thing that they have in common is that you can physically SEE how lightweight they are.  For example, look at the shea butter on the left of this picture, and the two lightweight moisturizers on the right.

See how the shea butter is totally opaque and putty-like, while the two moisturizers are more translucent?  That’s what we’re aiming for here.

Now in no particular order, there are three of my fa-vor-rite conditioners for So Fine hair

1. Bee Mine’s Deja’s Hair Milk—  This is like the Swiss Army knife of my moisturizer arsenal: I can use it in so many ways! Sometimes I like to use it as a leave in on damp hair beneath a styler, other times I like to use it as a quick daily moisturizing fix on dry hair, and others I just put it in alone, shake my head, and walk out the door!  Simple, versatile, moisturizing.

2. Qhemet Biologics Burdock Root Butter Cream—  This is the creamiest of the bunch, but to this day I am still amazed at how lightweight it is!  From the second you touch this stuff, you can feel that its consistency is light, almost whipped, and airy.  It’s got a light, refreshing scent and has great slip.  Qhemet also has a little jar of joy for those who have more porous hair and who can handle a bit of a heavier product, called Amla and Olive Heavy Cream. A little goes a hecka long way.

3. Karen’s Body Beautiful Sweet Ambrosia-— Nectar of the gods INDEED: the stuff inside this black bottle makes my hair feel like cashmere.  I love to use it as a leave in; it just glides onto my hair after towel drying and plays very nicely with a wide variety of stylers and styles.

Now lucky ducky for one lucky reader, I’ve got some fantastic news: YOU CAN WIN ALL THREE OF THESE AND TRY THEM ON YOUR SO FINE SELF!!  Here’s what you have to do to enter to win:

1. Make sure you’re a subscriber to Natural Selection.  (see that little box beneath the logo that says subscribe?  Use it!)


2. Write a HAIKU in the comments about your hair.  What exactly is a haiku?  Its a poem that’s easy (and fun) to write.  Three lines.  The first line has 5 syllables, the second line has 7 syllables, the third line has 5 syllables. Bam.  The catch: your haiku must include the words “SO FINE”.

Here’s my example:

Guuuuuuuuurl, look at your hair:

You SO FINE and you know it!

Moisturize me well.

See!  Easy as that!  I cannot cannot cannot WAIT to see what y’all come up with!  Winner will be chosen a week from today, so stay tuned!

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